Hi Hawho, kudos to you on nipping you s's comments in the bud. The last thing the world needs is another objectifying/superficial person and I think it's great you corrected your s, he will remember that and be a better person. Our mlc spouses certainly aren't good role models in that area. I can't believe some of the things I've heard my w say.
I hear you on the getting old/aging talk, it's so ridiculous. It's become commonplace for my w now, even talking about people only 5 years older than us, lol. The other day the was looking at me weird then rushed towards me. Omg, what could it be? I thought I had a spider on my shoulder. Nope, she said "I thought I saw a gray hair but it was just the sun."
As always I enjoy your posts, you are an inspiration for me to keep digging for patience though this.
