Quick journaling. No gym today. Bleh. Spent the morning with D and W being lazy and then I took D to do laser tag for the first time. Had a blast! She is a hell of a shot, unsure where she got that from! After that I took her to the pet store so we could see the animals, which she loves to do. W had planned to get D a cat (IC thinks as a replacement for me) when we were working through the S docs. Now we are all planning to get a cat in the summer when D starts to wean off some of her allergy stuff. Not a cat person, but D loves animals and it will be good for her.
Got home and W got mad bc she believes I told D she could get an allergy test in May that'd help determine if we can get a cat. Says I wasn't listening at the doctor on Wednesday and hen W stormed off.
What I told D was that with the meds starting to be paired back when school ended in May, the doc sounded like we could do the allergy test shortly thereafter. Of course W stormed off before I could respond and truthfully I don't know that I owe her that explanation anyway.
Did a pillow fort with my D after dinner and we played scientist and Pokemon, a favorite in our household. A game D and I made up that we do every time there's a pillow fort involved. W always goes upstairs bc she can't stand the mess. After that I did Ds meds For the evening.
We have been talking about selling our house and buying another that's in the middle school district that most of Ds friends will be attending. W asked that we give Ds best friends mom who is a realtor a chance to sell the house. No issues with that. I know W is going to lunch with her this week. So I ask W if she could talk to her about setting up a meeting to talk about selling and buying a house. W says "what do you think this lunch is for" in a resentful huff. I pause and tell W that id like to be involved in the discussion around it. W then says "I'm not going to involve you in a lunch with my friend (not really friends) where we are not even going to talk about it". i was slightly taken aback as that's not what she said, but I told her I'd like to have a sit down meeting with all of us at some point. W said "duh!" And left it at that. Very combative and very unnecessary. Unsure what her deal is now.
Heading to bed now but had a good weekend with D. Tired today and I know I wasn't 100% here but I'll get some sleep and be ready for tomorrow afternoon with D. I stay up as late as the girls do during their sleepover in case they need something. Getting too old. Gym tomorrow morning.
Me39 M11 : T13 D9 BD 5/31/16 In House S until 6/21/17 Divorced 10/5/18
