Gordie: Pulling it all together

[Woke_Up]

Yesterday, I re read the DR section on infidelity and one of the exercises MWD encourages you to do if W doesn't want to give up partner is to ask: what is it about the OM that your W finds so attractive?

I find that a sticky one. I think it's good to know for when piecing is underway, I am not so sure what we can do about things while she is still wayward? In my case, OM is via online - always asks what she is thinking, always professing love & how profound it is, playing his guitar/singing songs for her (old fashioned wooing). I can take all of this on board, however, as the advice when she won't quit is pretty much LRT, then it has to be parked away for future reference. In your sitch, I don't know - if you can add some elements in without pursuing, then great, but you can't risk turning into an obedient and faithful dog just to try and please her. All the advice says it won't work, and it probably wouldn't work with her POM once reality came calling.

Keep hanging tough.