If your question is just to know, I understand but honestly it doesn't matter.

If it is to know what you do, then again it changes nothing for you.

Listen to the advice already given.

However if your question is whether you belong to this part of the forum, then I agree with our friend huddy. This forum is more suited to what you are going through than newcomers. Nothing is stopping you posting in both.

Best wishes

R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together