Not guys you have completely misunderstood me here.
I do not and never have block him from seeing the kids. He had them whenever he asked over the xmas hols.
I had booked the appointment he wanted to come along but make it later. That is not convenient for me with childcare so I said make his own and TBH I'd rather you didn't come with me ( maybe you do not like the last bit but it was how I was feeling at the time) but!!!!! I did not say do not come to parents evening I pointed out that it wasn't up to me to book appointments for him now as he could book his own.....which he can. Which is what he will do. He has access to all school reports etc and all info at school...I haven't stopped anything.....he talks to the kids regularly...sees them.....I just don't want him to expect me to organise things to his convenience ...which I did before...he needs to sort that stuff out himself.
But again.....I have not said to him ever that he can't be involved with the kids...he is....I just reiterated it was not my role now to sort appointments out. Hope that is clearer
