Does your spouse exhibit depression and/or confusion? MLCers exhibit confusion and depression is the major ingredient. They tend to go off the rails, dress younger, change up hair styles, diet, spend money like water, exhibit a lot of anger in the beginning, think that a divorce is the answer to their prayers, detach from the spouse, children, pets, home, friends, etc. Is your spouse doing any of this?
You are the only one that tell if your spouse is in MLC. I would suggest that you read as much as you can on this forum, but no matter whether your spouse is in MLC or a WAW, we would still advice you to give them space and time and yes...keep the focus on you and your family. Affairs need to die a natural death and not by the hands of the betrayed spouse.
Here's are threads from many of years ago that may be of interest to you:
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Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
