Cherry. Getting on with a few bumps

[PsySara]

I am gobsmacked how your WH is re-enacting his own childhood and is utterly blind to it. He was abandoned by his father and now he does the same to Cherry-baby. When your WH is around do you plaster on a confident smile and keep things upbeat? I want you to be an Oscar winner and make this guy see only the most confident and radiant Cherry. He is on a journey that has nothing to do with you. It's okay to be angry and bitter about his actions towards your kids but don't let it color your view overall.

I am in the tentative stages of early piecing and still miss the man I met versus this self centered pod person that lookks like my husband. I totally get the weird juxtaposition of the love/hate feelings. There is still hope that your WH will get his head out of his butt. Do you have a coach?