Hi Billy - good for you ! Sounds like you are seeing your true value and have had it confirmed over this challenging time - I read this recently and it really hit home for me .... "I had just picked up my 12-year old son from the former family home where he lives with his mother and was driving away when he noticed I was looking a little sad. We very rarely discuss what happened since the divorce, wanting to keep our time together light-hearted. He said to me, "What’s up dad?" I answered, "Daddy's a bit sad because I have lost everything son". He answered with something I will never forget...He said, "You haven't lost those who love you, but the one who doesn't love you has lost YOU."
That's from a fantastic book I've just read and it really helped me to keep my sense of value when Inwas feeling down.
M 44/ W43 TOGETHER 26 YRS M16 S13/S10 ILYBANILWY JULY 16 STILL LIVING IN SAME HOUSE