Not with the intent to spark change in her but to do it for my future betterment whatever happens.
Excellent mindset, my friend.
Unfortunately, they often have the mindset that once passion/love is "gone" (in their minds) that it will never return. Sometimes it can, and sometimes it can't. I've seen all to often the self-fulfilling prophecy come true. All you have now is your path. And I do feel you are on the best one for you. Fair winds and following seas, my friend.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.