My first post: Hurting/scared

[SBJ]

Her main concern or desire that she expressed to me is that she wants her independence. And that the passion or love is gone from her and she's not sure it will ever come back.

Alaska...I will tell you that this seems to be a common thread with many of the man that have posted on here. Our wives have this fantasy that love/passion is out there waiting for them like a pot of gold at the end of a rainbow. My W said the same thing to me...we are best friends & roommates...I need more passion. That is a crock of $&!^. There is no excuse for cheating...either physical or emotional is wrong. They are totally confused individuals. Maybe they will come out of it...maybe they won't.