Jeep74 Thanks for your insight. Her main concern or desire that she expressed to me is that she wants her independence. And that the passion or love is gone from her and she's not sure it will ever come back. Whatever the reason for her cheating, and I'm not positive she is, you're right, it doesn't matter. I have to do things for myself. I've began to plan out my detachment in a way I hadn't before. Not with the intent to spark change in her but to do it for my future betterment whatever happens. I know now that's the best path for me. Thanks buddy, appreciate the time you took to give your advice. Stay strong AK8
