You are going to have dig deeper for patience and stronger faith because the rumors will continue to float around for quite some time. You have done nothing wrong and when people ask about the situation, advise them that whatever is happening in the lives of your family will stay amongst the family members. Yes, it's good to ask them to pray for your family as well.
You can't control the people spreading rumors about the situation, but you can stand tall, hold your head up and continue to be the honest, hardworking man that you've always been.
I do understand the feelings of anger because you know that deep down, your marriage can be salvaged if given a chance. She's just not there yet to actually see and understand that you aren't the problem...the problem is within herself.
Carry on as you have been. Hopefully people will get the message that what is going on in your life is private and not for public consumption.
