Slowly losing my wife (3)

[ForGump]

I believe Lex that it is the celeb himself.

I also think the celeb is a major bleeping putz. If he had any integrity, he'd gently but firmly and definitively turn away Lex's W's flirtations.

When a W is so intensely infatuated with a fantasy figure (like a celeb)...
I think it's really important to think about why that's happening. What void is that filling in her emotional life? Why isn't she able to feel satisfied w/ your marriage?

But for me ... I feel a distinction between an infatuation, however intense, vs. an actual physical relationship. I recognize that there is a small step between such an intense infatuation and adultery (not necessarily w/ the celeb, but w/ some other opportunity for sex that might tantalize her), but, still, it feels like a significant distinction to me. To me, that distinction forms a personal boundary.