Thanks Woke_up, It is not about the confrontation. I do not hold anger and am very sad about the way she is going. I do not need to vent to her because I have other people in my support group that I vent to. The way I look at it, it is more about the boundaries and making a moral stance for what I think is right. I was not going to say she is with this OM. I was going to say that I know she is seeing OM and do not care what she tells me. I do have proof that she is seeing OM but am not going to mention how I have it because it came from my kids and mutual friends.
Love is a decision. Genuine love is honor put into action, regardless of the cost.
Me:43 W:41 M:21 SS:25 S:19 D:18 BD1:3/16 BD2:10/16 W moves out 10/2/16