Love is a decision - my story

[Woke_Up]

What do you want out of the confrontation? Look deep inside and answer that first. If it is just righteous anger and the opportunity to vent, then probably not. If it is so you can draw your boundaries,make them clear, and enforce them (assuming you are much more able to do this than I am), then that would be the reason.

As Jeep says, you should have proof, otherwise it is likely she will just look you in the eye and lie. Mine has done that so many times. Even though I suspect she knew I wouldn't ask pointed questions if I didn't already know the answers, she would still just lie. From what I have read this is common in a WW.

Best of luck with however you decide to proceed.