Others may disagree, but I believe that you should confront her and tell her that you won't be in a marriage with her when she is involved with someone else. After all, she can't work on the relationship when her mind is somewhere else.

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I am prepared to pull that trigger. I just want her to know my stance.


There you go.


There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.