Love is a decision - my story

[Seeker7]

Thanks Jeep74, So the right thing to do then is to confront her? Even if it is to say that I know she is hooking up with OM. I am not worried about making her angry or pushing her further away if I am standing up for the right thing. I use to make her angry all the time but not for the right reasons. So bring up that I know that she is seeing OM is the right move?

I completely understand that she no longer respects me or the marriage. I also have let go and backed up. I am prepared to pull that trigger. I just want her to know my stance.