100383, I think that's good advice.. to stop prying and let her be. It's so hard though. I have to literally talk myself out of it. But I will do my Best from here on out. She's away on a trip now and won't be back till Next Wednesday. I'm angry and depressed right now cause I know she's probably with OM, but she won't call or text so that gives me some time to calm down and Restablish myself. Gonna concentrate on my kids, go to the gym, work and try to take the kids out to the movies or something. I feel right now, although I know her cheating is just a symptom of her MLC, like how could she do this? It's just not her? It's all just so unbelievable to me. I'm so glad I found you guys. Whatever happens, y'all are gonna make this a lot easier. Thanks for the hugs! AK8