Thanks for encouraging me to do this ahead of time, though. This is my reality and I need to confront it.
Yeah, it's so bad when I look and try to research this stuff that I frequently have to take a break just to cope and not have a panic attack. Then I think better to suffer through it now than to put my head in the sand and not be fully informed and let my W do whatever she wants, which always seems to be based on anecdotal evidence from just one friend's divorce experience and not well thought out at all.
Me: 46 W: 44 Married: 17 Together 21 D13; S10 BD: 03.03.15 (Not attracted to you) Almost 2 years trying, alone, to save marriage Status now: Divorced (effective 06.13.17)
