I'm not sure if you will ever see this post, but just wanted to say I read your old threads and learned a lot. Our situations have a lot of similarities so appreciate what you had to share.
*M died slowly of neglect (no big issues) *W still in love, still wants sex, but can't stay M *180s were to be more attentive to W *At the beginning you thought there was no OM, but at the end, you learned there was; if you had known earlier, would it have changed anything?
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving