So sorry for you Gump. I just cannot how painful it should have been to heard those words from her.
How do you picture the next few months together in the house? Did you discuss or have the intention to discuss with her what you are comfortable with? May be let her handle herself by herself, reality is different from fantasy. It something we cannot make them understand, they have to experience it. You still can have feelings for her and provide her with acts of kindness but reality has to settle down on its own.
Me 52+ WH 57+ Married 20 + Piecing since 2016 (ready to give up...)