Actually, Laowai, when I asked if YOU wanted to go ... I meant do you want to go for yourself that has NOTHING to do with your wife. If you wanted to go so you can be with your wife, I would have said that's a terrible idea.
You've got to move on, man. She's moved way the hell on. She sees you as clingy, needy, sad. Not attractive qualities.
Me: 50, MLC/WW 45 Young kids Nov 2015: BD1 Apr 2016: BD2 Jan 2017: W filed Feb 2017: D final