This kind of stuff makes me feel like dying. Is it in the Crucible where a suspect is slowly crushed to death by having boulders placed on his chest.

I need to go down to the courthouse to see what parenting plan my wife filed. I doubt it's 7-7. That would be too long for each of us to go w/o being with our kids.

I just search online for various schemes, and see multiple alternatives. Every one of those makes my heart ache. I need to think about it.

Thanks for encouraging me to do this ahead of time, though. This is my reality and I need to confront it.


Me: 50, MLC/WW 45
Young kids
Nov 2015: BD1
Apr 2016: BD2
Jan 2017: W filed
Feb 2017: D final