WW confused about the future.

[Sotto]

Hi Excile, you may feel in limbo, but I don't feel you are if your D has finalised. I think any feeling of limbo may be self-imposed by the contact you maintain with her. I would be tempted to leave her to her own devices more and make some nice plans for yourself...casually date a little if you feel you'd like to - you're a free agent now...

I'm not saying you'll never reconcile - who knows if you remain open to it, she may want to at some point - just don't put your own life on hold...go make plans...