Keep Wearing Wedding Band? [Thread #7]

[ForGump]

if there's something that you can stop doing for her to give her independence (and a little struggle) that might bring her some clarity.

Thanks. I'll think about that. Not so much from the place of wanting to affect her feelings, but from the place that ... well, I'm the over-accommodating fixer type, so letting her be more independent is simply the healthier thing for me to do. I like doing stuff for people, and doing it makes me feel more secure about the relationship (friendships, marriage, etc.) so I think there is a co-dependency element there. I have to work on that to be a healthier partner/friend.