2016sux...the wayward spouse is much better than we are at detaching because they detached a long while back. It takes time. I am still not totally there.
Sometimes its years in the making. It's been two years since BD and then the divorce last year and I still haven't completely. It took an over the top act by her Monday to trigger my failsafe. Now even the ghost has vanished.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
