2016sux...the wayward spouse is much better than we are at detaching because they detached a long while back. It takes time. I am still not totally there. I just said to myself yesterday that just when I feel that I have pulled away a great deal...I get reeled in by her some way and my emotions get stirred up. It took me several hours of reflection to get back to where I was earlier that morning.
The wayward goes dark on us unless they need or want something from us...they do not care how we are doing or what we are doing. You should just focus on you and your kids at the moment. Live each day for you and your kids.
One thing that keeps me going...Romans 12:12...Rejoice in hope, be patient in tribulation, be constant in prayer.
Find something that you can put positive energy into that will take your mind away from the bad (WH) and help you focus on the good (yourself & kids).
Me 49 W46 T25 M22 S22 D18 S13 W had EA Apr-Jul 2016 Dropped Bomb 7/9/16 ILYBINILWYA HER DIVORCE IS FINAL...8/18/17 Dropping the rope to SURVIVE & THRIVE!!!
