Hanging and hoping....Foundation building

[BillyHo]

Took a little time off from the boards to gather my thoughts. Nothing ground breaking has happened since my last post. I have seen W at least 5 times a week since the S. We are always nice to each other and have no trouble communicating. I have gone over my notes from my coaching session and I think I may adjust a few things. We talked about 180s and she is having me chart some and observe my W reaction to them. Most of these are going to revolve around me being a little less available. I am going to start to ask myself "is this something I really want to do or am I just doing it to make W happy?" She also said I need to be more mysterious and let her wonder what I'm up to.

I think the bottom line is I need to pull back some while still being friendly with my W.