So clearly she was upset...But I'm not sure why...???
This is your problem. It honestly doesnt matter why she is upset.
Originally Posted By: Laowai
I responded "what does that mean?"
Sending this is a complete waste of your breath. Stop pursuing her to get all of the details of what she's thinking. 1) It doesnt matter, 2) Shes probably lying and 3) She doesnt even KNOW what it means.
If shes upset, LET HER BE UPSET.
Originally Posted By: Laowai
Isn't making her upset counter-intuitive to the overall goal?
NO. NO. NO.
You. Cant. Nice. Her. Back.
She will likely get upset, but you need to be calm, steady, and CONSISTENT. She's going to react how she's going to react. YOU need to act for what is right according to your moral code and whats best for you.
