Originally Posted By: ForGump

My current reality feels brutal to me. But I hold on to some hope. Not unrealistic hope. Realistic hope.

Once the divorce is completed, though, I won't hang on to hope for reconciliation. I plan on moving on.


ForGump,

I'm really feeling your pain...and hope...love what you said about realistic hope...what does moving on mean to you? As you know, I'm about to separate, so have been thinking a lot about that...would love to hear your thoughts...particularly as we both have kids and want that co-parenting thing to work...


Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving