If I go dark, she goes dark. If I act cheery she's acts cheery.. if she texts or calls and I'm short with her she will stop communication. I'm hurting and scared because the things I've read on here seem not to work with her.
Im kind of confused by this. What do you mean "the things dont work on her." Going dark isnt by itself going to change her mind. The point of going dark is to get you to stop pursuing her so that you can do other things. Not to mention, this isnt a quick fix. You dont stop calling for a day or a week and see her immediately come running back.
Heres a question - how did YOU feel while you were 'dark'?
Originally Posted By: Alaska8
Because I can't leave and really show detachment does the above seem like an option to you guys?
Why do you have to leave to show detachment? What are you defining to be detachment?
