Well, I just told her that the dog swap "sounds like an awesome plan" She then replied "that's the response I expected...Later"

So clearly she was upset...But I'm not sure why...??? I responded "what does that mean?" Her response was "exactly what I said. Appreciate you being so accomodating. I'll let you know when I leave. Please have the dog ready so I can make the swap and leave. No need to waste time. Thanks again and have a good day."

What is your take on this exchange? Since I know her, these words clearly tell me that she is upset. My question is why? Should I ask her why she is upset? Isn't making her upset counter-intuitive to the overall goal?