I too am at the point of no reconciliation. I however promised my girls if their mom does wake up I will be there for them. Right now they don't want to face her alone if she did want to. Maybe years from now my daughters will chose to connect with her by themselves.
I did speak to the doctors about D14 condition. There is no rush to do anything unless her symptoms get worse. She did have an episode last week but was able to get it under control pretty quick. So waiting game until they clear their backlog of the Christmas break.
As for my MLC'r . Her birthday is next week. Is it ironic, it falls on mental health awareness day. Touching a lot on depression. There is a huge blitz about it on tv and of course Facebook
Maybe I'll post something like: Jan 25, mental health day, affects more than just the person who is depressed but Also those closest to them. We lived it.
Joking of course . I won't post anything. I'll take the girls to a movie :-)
M51 XW43 (38 at bd) BD1 MAY 30 2015 BD2 JUNE 25 2015 by text moved out Aug 2 2015 left both Daughters 13 and 15 (now 18-20) Her divorce Final July 26 2016 Last time she saw her kids Aug 2 2015