In my H, I have definitely seen different stages of "highs". And yes, they each seem to last 6 to 9 months. It was all about freedom and partying with mystery friends at BD.
Then he moved out and his excitement was like watching a teenager move into his first place. He bought new stuff, shared lots of ideas for his place....2 years later it is unkempt and run down. His canopy that covers his precious truck has been ripped off since summer.
Then it became work. He is now a workaholic, it certainly runs his life. At first he was excited about his promotion, big ideas to make changes....now it's complaining and exhaustion.
I am waiting to see what his next fix will be, it's about that time for change.
Take care HW, you sound good
Me 48 H 46 S 11 M 2004 BD 8/13 H moved out 2/15 -live in the present, enjoy the beauty around and within you, explore your new future-