So, I turned down a (pseudo) offer to go to my W's parents house for her dad's birthday this weekend. Her response was "glad you're not struggling with your decision"
This has happened in the past where I don't agree to do something with her and she pulls out the "you're the one that said you want to spend more time with me, and now you brush me off" card. While this is a true statement, immediately after bomb drop I did say that and I meant it. I am not sure what the right thing to do anymore is........