Hi LT
I recently was looking through your last thread and felt you were talking to me when you said shout stop and slow down. You see I feel stuck for sometimes afraid to escalate matter and laying low .. then gets some adrenaline power and rush to burn everything ... last two days I was feeling down disrespected and totally ignored so I started thinking to end the whole R and pushing h ... although I know if I do push he will not fight me. So I started thinking that it is not fair financially to be fully responsible for over 3 years. Job advised me to seek a lawyer to discuss but I have some concerns of shifting the issue to be about money which he always said that everyone just wants money from him ...no one cares about him....I know it is my right ...I'll guess will sleep on it... I am thankful for job advice as she has the insight that I am not ready ....but I am scared to be the fool at the end...I like how you see positives in the smallest things you ex does. I have to sometimes focus on the small stuff rather than assume ... appreciate if you have time to read my thread....and please shout loader....

Congratulations for the new job, some statistic I read was that 82% of employees leave because of their direct boss not because of higher pay....I wish employers look more into that ...good luck ..

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