I guess this time of year reminds me of the lowest point of my life so i revisit it and realize how different I am now.

It's been 2 years since I got my dear john letter. I got remarried last august to a wonderful woman and things are awesome now. Rereading my posts now is partly depressing and partly cathartic, I'm not sure anyone really ever fully "recovers" from something like this. I still think about it from time to time. It no longer makes me sad, just a little anger and a little feeling of being betrayed.

For anyone going through it currently, just realize it gets better and easier no matter how your situation pans out.


M:39 W:35
Married: 12 years
Together: 16 years
No kids
D bomb: 1/17/15
Filed 1/29/15
Moving out 2/2015