I guess this time of year reminds me of the lowest point of my life so i revisit it and realize how different I am now.
It's been 2 years since I got my dear john letter. I got remarried last august to a wonderful woman and things are awesome now. Rereading my posts now is partly depressing and partly cathartic, I'm not sure anyone really ever fully "recovers" from something like this. I still think about it from time to time. It no longer makes me sad, just a little anger and a little feeling of being betrayed.
For anyone going through it currently, just realize it gets better and easier no matter how your situation pans out.
M:39 W:35 Married: 12 years Together: 16 years No kids D bomb: 1/17/15 Filed 1/29/15 Moving out 2/2015