Much different attitude from H in the last 2 days and I'm not sure how to take it.
Yesterday morning he mentioned my weight loss. He said, in typical woman fashion, you lose weight and it's another man that will get to enjoy it.
Shortly after he left, he called me to talk about the weather of all things. An hour later I get a text asking if he could start texting me now. He sent me 7 texts throughout the day. Nothing significant or of consequence. Some just to tease about me having no knowledge of how to operate a cell phone.
Today I got a text asking me to ask my mom to watch the kids on Saturday. I have plans and apparently so does he. He made plans to go out with a couple of girls, some single. 1 happens to be a friend of mine which is how I know about it. I also know that it got cancelled. But his text said, it may be canceled but I want that to be from "him" not because I couldn't make it. Why lie? He hasn't before. In fact he told me about getting together with them, just not when.
The he came home at lunch time because D was sick so he picked her up from school. He actually waited to leave until I had my break from work. Again, no major conversation, more teasing and laughing about the cell phone.
At first I was excited. I thought these are positive steps. But is it really? Is he just happy because he thinks I'm ok with this and he can go on guilt free?
As far as I know, he still has an appointment with an attorney tomorrow.
M:41 H:43 T:26yrs M:19 yrs S:15 D1:14 D2:9 Living together but separated
