Hi HaWho,
As usual... You seem cool as a cucumber. Glad you are feeling better.

Wanted to chime in on this timeline as I've kind of seen the same thing myself. The first 6-9 months, stbx was definitely livin large. He was planning parties at my house that would occur after I moved out, right in front of me. I remember him throwing his hands in the air shouting, I just want to have fun! Well, at the 6-9 month mark, he took a deep dive and didnt seem to be happy with his decision at all. He would even tell me that he wasn't having fun and he wasn't happy... This isn't what he wanted. (that didn't make him want to work on the m... Just search for more happiness). 6 months later.. He still couldn't find it, and felt that he was "ready to move on" and he filed for the D. i think it's very cyclical.


Me- 30's H- 40's
T-10 M-5
I moved out b/c he wanted space- June 15
D filed by H: September 16