Seeker,

I like what Matrix said. In addition, goal number 6 says, "For me to detach and give an impression that I have moved on." My advice, for whatever it's worth, is that you shouldn't try to give the impression that you've moved on, you should truly move on. That doesn't mean that you should go out and get a girlfriend; it means that you continue moving forward with your life as if you're ready to leave her behind.