I have been on the site for a bit but not posted, H mlc started before march 2013 but I got ilbnilwu then. Still in same house living as roommates. H knows I do not want a divorce or separation, but with this news I am thinking of it more and more. Have read both D B and D R but have not implemented anything much as I try to live by the 37 rules. Ow came and went, he is looking for alternatives I am silent on the fact that I know .
Need advice on telling him the news as I only learnt today...