H made a snide comment that he guessed it wasn't going to be a teddy kind of night.
You should have said "Well, hubby, you're not wearing your thong".
But honestly - his comment shows that on some secret level he was hoping maybe you would get intimate when you were forced to share a bed. If you want to reconcile you're going to have to figure out a way to forgive him for the crazy sh!t that he wrote when he was out of his mind.