Well, things with OM have been going strong for 7 months with no signs of slowing down. Eventually there has to come a time to poke the bear, right?
Also, at some point this method of going dark/letting her be has to wear on her as well right? I mean eventually she will just say, "OK he clearly doesn't care about me anymore so what is the point." I understand much of DB is counterintuitive, but I just have to wonder if this won't eventually shut a door.
Read what sotto said that is excactly right advice,you need to let the affair burn out,for her to learn a lesson but no guarantees how longs is a piece of string,I think if you poke it could backfire,ATM the op means more than you to her so your kinda waisting your time poking,I don't think it will work but its up to you,I've read a tippicle affair can last from 3 to 24 months,but some last for ever,there is about 4 stages to the average affair,first few months is the honey moon period they get a kinda high like on drugs chemicals flow around there brains like hormones,,so you need to give it time and hope the novelty wares off,
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