Also thanks to JuJuB and Jeep. I haven't heard stories until recently of how other people lash out at their WS. It's only when I've been describing to my friends how our marriage broke down, they start to say, well actually, I do the same thing etc, but they admit they haven't gone to the extent I did.
Add to that WH's assertion that all he wants is a little bit of kindness in his life and the OW is the nicest kindest woman he's ever met and there goes my self esteem down the proverbial drain. Again, I feel like the ugliest person around.
