Well, things with OM have been going strong for 7 months with no signs of slowing down. Eventually there has to come a time to poke the bear, right?
Also, at some point this method of going dark/letting her be has to wear on her as well right? I mean eventually she will just say, "OK he clearly doesn't care about me anymore so what is the point." I understand much of DB is counterintuitive, but I just have to wonder if this won't eventually shut a door.