Working on a Trial Separation Agreement with MLC H

[Brubeck]

Hey ccgrrl - nothing to add really, just offering my thumbs up on how well you're handling this.

I have been reading but not posting these past few days. To be honest, sometimes I found myself obsessively checking in here and I was starting to feel like that was not so healthy for me. I think it's important to vent and get support, but I also don't want to spend every waking hour focused entirely on my H's MLC and the anxiety I feel around our pending separation...

You and me both. I haven't updated my sitch in months, but I still read many threads as I find comfort in seeing how people are navigating through their spouse's MLC.

I say my mantra every time I think about what H is doing or possible OW: “Drop the rope; let it go; get a new life".

When I just have general anxiety about the future, I remind myself something I heard in yoga class: “Everything is interconnected; everything must change; and this, too, shall pass”.

Sounds like you are digging in and doing the work. Sounds like the right path. I'm still trying, I still fail almost daily with it (my sitch is way worse than yours). Kudos to you ccgrrl - you're walking the path, however tough it gets. Great job, keep it going.