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[Moose42]

Experienced the nice and friendly one day cold and distant the next.
Just like you read on here seemed like someone other than my wife.
I started to back off a little and then just last week I found she is back to texting again.
This time with a guy she knew from childhood.
I have been using the LRT since then. dont know if is too late for marriage being I waited so long to implement any technique.

Trying to detach,GAL and work on some personal growth and goals now. We are both in IC and I am attending A.A.
12 step.
Love the boards and all the good people here.
Peace.

Hello Moose42,

I'm so sorry for the passing of your daughter and for the situation you are in currently.

Kudos to you for getting sober and working the 12 step program, keep it up!

Are you sure the LRT is the best course of action right now? It is easy to be conflicted when you have so many emotions and thoughts going through your head!

You are at a very fragile point in this relationship and it would be extremely helpful to know what your next move should be. Feel free to give me a call at 303-444-7004 to discuss how we can best help you determine what to do next.

Cristy

Resource Coordinator
The Divorce Busting Center
303-444-7004

Hi Cristy. Thank you for the kind words. I really wish I could afford the coaching services. Flat broke at this time.
I am not really sure what is the best right now. So far in the couple weeks of LRT she has initiated contact a couple times. Something she has not done since S in Oct.
Seemed as if we were going along good for a while but after holidays she has been back to the cold, distant and EA that she denies. I guess I am just going by DR which mentioned LRT if separated. Also per Sandys rules.
Looking for all the advise I can get at this time. Thank you.
Moose.