Originally Posted By: PacLove


I think there's a fine line we need to balance between boundaries, self growth, but also showing a caring, loving and kind attitude towards them - if they are receptive but without feeding too much that would lead to cake eating.



Yes, I'm having a hard time finding that fine line...

Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving