D text him last night about the fact he forgot her birthday. It had bugged her that he texted S to ask if he was going to SS 30th surprise birthday party.

I told her that if his mum hadn't have told him about this party I doubt he would have remembered his either.

S said he wasn't going as he was working. H answered that he too was working. Odd....why bother asking!

He apologised to D and said that he had forgotten his own birthday last May.

Lie!!!! He had promised to come home that day, but I received an email at the time he was supposed to arrive saying "it's my BDay today and I didn't want a fuss" blah blah blah.

GD was watching videos of her and him on FB and started crying again saying her Papa had gone and she misses him.

She's only four......it makes me so angry.