Just to clarify that last part where I said I didn't believe the WW made a conscious decision........I was referring to her intentionly choosing an AP who would be considered "down" from her usual standard. She consciously knows her actions are wrong. I didn't want to leave the impression the WW is under some hypnotic spell.
Interestingly enough, the AP is often the opposite of her spouse. Which I suppose makes sense, since her alter ego is opposite from the lady she once was.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
